31 Goals for my Golden Birthday (31st)

My 30th ended very differently than originally planned. Like most people, I have big plans for 2020 since its the start of a new decade, but life doesn’t ever go perfectly as planned, so we just gotta go with the flow. Control what you can control, and leave the rest to the universe.

Case and point: I should have been sitting on beach in Cancún at this very moment. It’s all good though, we’re still making the best of it! I got to spend much-needed time with family this year. I haven’t celebrated many birthdays with my family since I left town at 18. So it was a nice change.

What is a Golden Birthday?

When you turn the same age as your birth date.

I was born May 31st and am so grateful my golden year came later on in life. If I had to celebrate before 12 years old, I probably wouldn’t have remembered much. From 13-24, I don’t think I was mature enough to celebrate it with much meaning other than partying on the day of (and probably not remembering it lol). But now, I’m going to make sure to celebrate it all year by setting some realistic goals for myself!

Goals for my 31st

1. Slow down and be more present in my daily life.
2. Express gratitude daily.
3. Compliment someone daily.
4. Be open and consistently speak positivity.
5. Follow a consistent skincare routine.
6. Practice self-care.
7. Improve my posture.
8. Stay active/exercise consistently.
9. Be able to run a 5K comfortably.
10. Get my mile time under 10 minutes
11. Cook at home, whenever possible.
12. Drink more water.
13. Travel, travel, travel.
14. Read more. (Target: 6 books)
15. Take the PMP (Project Management Professional) Exam
16. Time block and follow it.
17. Convince my fiancé to do TikTok dances with me. (He’s a much better dancer than me)
18. Continue to grow and build upon my relationship with my fiancé.
19. Be more compassionate and understanding.
20. Be a better ally to underrepresented communities.
21. Express myself more.
22. Organize my house.
23. Get rid of the clutter.
24. Create content weekly.
25. Be better at social media.
26. Pick up my clothes instead of leaving a mess in the room (he will love me even more lol).
27. Stop procrastinating.
28. Move to out of Las Vegas.
29. Plan an amazing wedding.
30. Get married.
31. HAVE FUN!